Floggers

A flogger is a handle with many tails, used in impact play for spread-out strokes, light taps and teasing. Unlike a single paddle, the tails fan out and brush the skin, which gives a range from a gentle sweep to a heavier thud depending on the material, the length and the force.

What to compare

• Tail material: leather, suede, rubber or faux leather each feel different
• Tail length and number: more, longer tails usually spread the impact
• Handle length and grip: a comfortable handle gives better control
• Extras, such as a vibrating handle
• Care instructions, since leather needs more looking after

Which flogger for a beginner?

Choose soft or lighter tails and a handle that fits your hand. Start with slow, light strokes on the fleshy areas such as the buttocks and thighs, and increase the force only as you both agree.

Using a flogger safely

Avoid the spine, kidneys, joints, face and neck. Agree limits and a safeword before you begin, check in often and stop if there is pain you did not ask for. Clean any handle that vibrates with a damp cloth and keep its charging port dry, and store the tails flat or hanging so they keep their shape.